A week and a half ago, we met with Alex’s case manager and
behavioral therapist for his regular quarterly meeting. As I have mentioned in
previous blog entries, those who receive support services from the state meet every
three months with their teams of professionals to go over progress and goals
and to discuss any concerns. We have been blessed with outstanding people who
work with Alex to develop his skills and who truly care about our family. The
primary topic for this particular meeting was to go over Alex’s individualized
support plan, which is similar to an individualized educational plan (IEP) developed
by special educational personnel for special needs students.
Last year, Indiana’s Bureau of Developmental Disabilities
Services implemented Person-Centered Planning that requires gathering a great
deal of information in hopes of providing better services for individuals with
developmental disabilities. [To read my April 22, 2018, blog entry, “Person-Centered
Planning,” explaining this process, please click here.] Although Alex’s case
manager has only been working with us for a little over a year, she has done an
excellent job getting to know him and collecting the details needed to develop
this comprehensive report. Currently, Alex’s person-centered individualized
support plan is 32 pages long and will likely increase with the additions we
made at our last quarterly meeting.
Prior to our meeting, his case manager sent me a draft copy
of the plan, which I read and summarized for Ed, who trusts my judgment.
Essentially, Alex’s goals are to continue progress in the following areas:
improving his communication skills, engaging in community activities, developing
coping skills to deal with anxiety, and achieving greater independence.
Considering that autism impacts his language, social, and motor skills, as well
as anxiety, these goals make complete sense and are worthwhile pursuits.
Reading the positive statements in
the document noting Alex’s achievements and progress over the past few years was quite encouraging.
However, his case manager wisely worded these comments, noting that continued
success requires keeping vital supports in place, such as ongoing behavioral therapy
and music therapy. Those of us who know Alex well recognize how valuable his therapists
are to his continued progress toward these essential goals.
After going through the draft copy of the plan prior to the
meeting, I made notes regarding changes or additions that might give more insights
into Alex and his current interests and concerns. For example, the report noted
that Alex’s hardest time of day was between 9:00-10:30 A.M. While this was true
several years ago because his bedtime medications had worn off and the morning
doses had not yet taken effect, this is thankfully no longer true. In fact, Alex
has improved so much that he only takes two medications at bedtime and awakens
pleasant natured. Fortunately, he doesn’t have any time of day that is
difficult for him, and we are grateful for this significant progress.
However, he still struggles with sensory issues that can
trigger anxiety. For example, because his hearing is quite acute, noises can
startle him, and he can become overwhelmed by loud music or sounds. If we are
out in public, and volume annoys him, we may have to leave. In addition, he has
had difficulty recently with weather bothering him, especially rain. I have
read that dogs don’t like to go out in the rain, not primarily because they don’t like
getting wet, but because their ears are sensitive to the sounds of raindrops. Similarly,
I suspect that Alex hears the sound of rain amplified to a level that makes him
prefer to stay indoors. With this in mind, we asked his case manager to add the
following to his report: “Inclement weather, such as rain, extreme cold, and
wind, can bother Alex, due to sensory issues. He also has anxiety about
thunderstorms and tornadoes.” Hopefully, these added details will enable others
who work with Alex to understand his weather-related concerns.
Additionally, we requested that a few more details be added to
the “About Me” introduction to the document under the subheading “What people
like and admire about me.” While his case manager had done a good job of
explaining tasks Alex does to help around the house, we wanted the report to
describe Alex’s positive traits and personality a bit more. Trying to be
objective, I considered what other people have said and noticed about Alex.
With these observations in mind, we asked that Alex be described in the report
as pleasant and amusing as well as noting that he likes to share interests with
others and strives to do his best. His behavioral therapist agreed with these
descriptors of Alex, and his case manager confirmed the value of including
these details in the report.
Finally, in the “Social and Spirituality” section, we felt that
addressing Alex’s faith in God was necessary to understanding him. Although
church services can prove overwhelming to Alex with sensory issues, such as the
vibration of the church organ and the echoing sounds of a sanctuary, he has
developed a strong personal faith reinforced through our religious teaching at
home. Every night, he asks God to bless a long list of people who are important
to him––from family and friends to his support team to former Chicago Cubs
baseball player Sammy Sosa. Consequently, we requested that his report include
the following statement: “Faith is important to Alex, and he regularly says
bedtime prayers.”
Even though Alex’s individualized support plan can be
daunting to read, especially as it details the obstacles autism has imposed
upon his life, the positive tone regarding the progress he has made with time
and support offers encouragement for the future. As we keep working to develop
his communication, social, and motor skills, as well as to develop his coping
skills and work toward greater independence, we continue to pray for God’s
healing. Furthermore, we hope that someday Alex will no longer need a support team
or an individualized support plan, knowing that with God all things are
possible.
“Jesus looked at them intently and said, ‘Humanly speaking,
it is impossible. But with God everything is possible.’” Matthew 19:26
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